February 2, 2020 — Feast of the Presentation of Our Lord

Listen to this homily here.

Brothers and sisters, I was confronted by two deaths this week, one all of us surely have heard about, the death of Kobe Bryant, his daughter and several others in a helicopter crash, and the second one was the death of my best-friend’s stepmother, Irene.  My best friend Chris happens to be a priest of the Archdiocese but I have been best friends with him since high school.  When we were in college, his mother died, after a long illness.  His father remarried and for the last 28 years his stepmother was another mother to him, and all she met.

Irene was a faithful Catholic, she went to Church, she volunteered at the Center for Hope Hospice, she founded and ran a Perpetual Eucharistic Adoration Chapel at Our Lady of Lourdes in Mountainside.  Prayer was important to her.  The Eucharist was important to her.  Jesus was important to her and she organized her life around service to Him.  She loved her family and friends, and treated everyone with love.  As I saw her at her wake, I thanked her not only for all the love, but for the witness she gave to Christ to all her family and friends.  Irene was not a slave to evil, the Devil, or the world — she was freed by Christ’s redemptive suffering, death, and resurrection to live in the light of Christ whom she adored.  I leave it up to God to determine whether or not Irene is in heaven, as He is the only judge, but if she is not, I feel that I have no chance.  But, I pray that God has her in Heaven.

Unless one were under a rock this week, one has surely heard of the tragic helicopter accident which claimed the life of Kobe Bryant, his daughter Gianna, and seven other victims.  Kobe Bryant was an NBA Superstar, winning five NBA championships in his twenty-year career with the Los Angeles Lakers.  He had a wife named Vanessa and had four daughters with her.  His family and the families of the other victims are grieving right now, and we should say a prayer for them.  All of these facts we know.

What we may not have heard, and the stories have come out this week, that before Kobe and Gigi boarded that helicopter on Sunday afternoon, they were at Mass on Sunday morning.  They celebrated the Eucharist at Our Lady Queen of Angels in Newport Beach, California.  Kobe was raised Catholic, and was married in the Catholic Church.  He has been reported to have been seen not just at Sunday Mass but frequently at daily Masses.  The Archbishop of Los Angeles said he knew him to be a man of faith.

However, Kobe had had his problems.  He committed adultery.  His wife divorced him.  A priest helped turn his life around with good advice, and Kobe sought to live his life better.  Eventually he and his wife reconciled and together they started a Foundation to help young kids develop physical and social skills through sports and charity work.  I repeat these facts, not to impugn the dead but to demonstrate great hope.

Great hope in what?  Great hope in God.  Great hope in the Church.  Great hope in the Sacraments, particularly the Most Blessed Sacrament, the Eucharist.  As with Irene, I leave it up to God whether or not Kobe, or Gianna, or any of the other victims are in Heaven or not, for He is the only judge.  I pray for his salvation and that of all the other victims.  But, I believe that faith, demonstrated by the reception of the Sacraments strengthens us and allows us to grow closer to Him, avoid sin, and to do good in our lives.  I think Kobe’s story justifies my belief.

No matter our past, we have a future.  And our destiny, because of our Baptism is to be with God in Heaven.  Whether we actually achieve that is, of course, up to us and the choices we make to do good and to avoid sin.  But, the Sacraments help us to become holy and to be rewarded with eternal life.

So, we must ask ourselves, do we take Church seriously enough?  Do we come every week to Mass, repent of grave sin in the confessional, and receive the Eucharist worthily?  Do we pray enough?  Or, do we allow other things get in the way of these duties: sports, theatre, dance, parties, laziness, work?  At the end of each of our lives, we will meet Jesus and have to answer for our conduct.  Would that we were at Mass and receive the Eucharist worthily on the day of our death!

Posted in Homilies | Leave a comment

Third Sunday in Ordinary Time — January 26, 2020

Today’s readings may be found here.

Listen to this homily here.

This world is divided.  We know this.  We see it every day in the news.  Look at the political situation right now in Washington.  There is also war, persecution, inhuman atrocities that go on in this world every day.  This world is divided.

But, St. Paul urges us today to have no divisions among us, that we be united in the same mind and the same purpose.  That may seem impossible, but it is the desire of St. Paul and Jesus Christ for us.  Maybe we can’t heal the world of division, but can we heal our families, our friends, our neighbors of it?  Do we need to stand idly by and say that’s just the way it is?

The key to overcoming division is to remember that we are baptized.  And as we are baptized, we are made one with the Body of Christ.  No matter what, we are one Church and one organism.    We need to care for others the way we care for our very own selves. 

What leads us away from thinking this way is simply our pride.  We want to believe what we want to believe, and nobody is going to tell us different.  We put up walls that divide.  We surround ourselves only with the like-minded.  The only remedy to that pride is to become meek and humble, to become obedient to the Father in heaven in all ways.

So let us today pray for the following: first, humility in our own hearts; second, healing in our families; third, an end to division in our country; and fourth, an end to hatred and violence in this world.  Amen.

Posted in Homilies | Leave a comment

Feast of the Baptism of the Lord — January 12, 2020

Today’s Readings can be found here.

       This Gospel that we just heard, brothers and sisters, is a game changer.  Centuries and centuries ago, God created us, and we fell from grace through the original sin, but He promised us that there would be a redemption.  God the Father called a people to be chosen through Abraham, He liberated them from physical slavery through Moses, and gave them a land to live in.  Some stayed faithful throughout, others sinned and went their own way. 

       Yet, through it all, God the Father constantly culled a remnant of people who were faithful to Him, so that they could receive the greatest gift of salvation that was to come through God Himself becoming one of us.  God’s Son, the Eternal Word, our God, became man through the incarnation and became Emmanuel, God with us.  God came to us through one of our own, the Blessed Virgin Mary, the epitome of an obedient servant.  The almighty God became a servant of the Father through His Mother, another obedient servant.  But, that was not the end.  And that is the game change today.  Jesus Christ, the servant that Isaiah prophesied in the first reading today, was baptized in the Jordan, by another one of God’s servants, John the Baptist.  The heavens opened to Christ, the Spirit came down in the form of a dove and a voice rang out from heaven: “This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well-pleased.” 

       Through God’s will and the Baptism of Jesus Christ, human nature now had the ability to be raised to a higher level.  As St. Paul put it, we have the ability to become no longer servants, but God’s very own children.  The Baptism of Jesus Christ allows us to be Baptized into Him, and therefore become God’s Children, rather than little pawns in some game.  This is a game changer, if you know anything about mythology — the various gods used human beings for their playthings, demanded tribute, exacted revenge upon them, punished them not to correct them, but to destroy them.  The idea that we can be beloved sons and daughters of our Father in Heaven, through Baptism into His Son changed everything.  We can now go to Heaven, we can now live in freedom during our lives on Earth.  That is now the possibility for each of us.  Because we have been told this truth all our lives, we might take it for granted — because most of us were probably baptized as infants, we might take it for granted — and that is why I am belaboring this point so much — this is not just trivia, this is great news for each of us that we need to reflect upon daily in our lives.

       For, often enough, we don’t feel free.  We still suffer from the sins of the world and the sins of our own — we still suffer illnesses and death — we suffer anxiety, depression, and fear — we suffer from lack of security and uncertainty.  We can name what we suffer and we don’t feel freedom there.  And that is why we need to recall this good news, this great news that we are beloved children of our loving Father in heaven.  We need to bring those troubles to Him, we need to bring our lack of freedom to Him, we need to find freedom in Him when we do not feel freedom in this world.  We are no longer servants who are playthings or pawns, we are beloved sons and daughters of a loving God who created us, became one of us, was baptized for us, and suffered and died on the Cross for us.  The game has indeed changed, let us live in that knowledge.

Posted in Homilies | Leave a comment

Feast of the Epiphany — January 5, 2020

The readings for today’s feast can be found here.

The story of the Epiphany, which we just heard proclaimed in the Gospel, is a story of faith.  It is a story of faith in exercise, and it is a story of faith rewarded.  It then leads to a lifetime of being enlightened by the glory of God, and letting that glory shower down upon others in our lives.           The three kings, the three wise men, the three magi, whatever you want to call them must have had faith, or they must have been open to receiving the faith that was being offered to them.  I think that they must have been open to it, for what would the appearance of a star mean to them, unless they were open to being prepared to receive the King, the Messiah that was portended?  I think that they must have been open to it because what else would have caused them to leave their kingdoms, their homeland, to travel to an unknown district in search of faith’s goal, Jesus Christ?  And so, we need to ask ourselves, do we act with the same kind of faith?  Do we have faith that Jesus is working steadily in our lives, begging us to come to Him?  Or are we not open to receive the greatest of all gifts, the graces of Jesus Christ in our hearts.  In short, do we or do we not exercise our faith in our lives, letting it encourage us to seek Him?

Moving on, after the kings reached Jerusalem, they were confronted by those who had no faith, those worldly people seeking their own power and glory.  We have those kind of people all around us as well.  And so I think we should as ourselves: do we display our faith to others, even though we know those others lack the faith we have?  Do we hide the graces and glory God has given us in our lives, because we worry about what they might say, or do to us?  Or do we embrace our faith as the wise men did, and carry on our journey towards Christ proudly?

Moving forward, the kings reached the baby Jesus and His Mother and did Him homage, bringing gifts of great worth to Him.  We can ask ourselves, what do we offer to the Lord, do we offer Him what is really meaningful to Him, or just what we can spare?  Do we offer Him all of the time, talent, and treasure that we could give to Him, in response to the great gifts He has given us?

I think that if most of us knew that Jesus was around the corner, we would desire to go to Him.  I think that if we knew that Jesus was present here we would bring our best things to Him and do Him homage.  The question is, do we do that, do we bring our best to Him, now in faith, or are we waiting for some other sort of revelation before we give all to Him?

In another Gospel, one about what would happen at the end times, Jesus said that whatever we do for the least of those amongst us, we do for Him.  Can we not do homage to our King by treating others around us with respect, love, and care?  Can we not be as generous with our gifts in service of others as if we saw Christ?  Can we let ourselves be moved by the generosity of the faith within us, to give all to our neighbors in love?  That is the call of the Gospel.

The story of the Epiphany is a story of faith, faith exercised, faith rewarded, and faith demonstrating God’s glory to others.  Let us live our faith as the wise men did before us!

Posted in Homilies | Leave a comment

Solemnity of Mary, the Mother of God — January 1, 2020

The passage of time, the tick of the clock, the turn of the calendar page, the changing of the calendar itself from 2019 to 2020 is very useful to us in the practicalities of our lives.  Time passes, and we measure it.  But what passes is merely transitory; we don’t ever get it back.  Every second, every minute, every hour, every day, every month, every year is lost to the annals of time, never, ever to be seen again.  We lose time in our lives, rather, it is stripped from us without our consent, never to be given back to us again.

And so we look to other things that we hope are not transitory to give us our stability.  We look to wealth, to possessions, to health, etc.  But, we find that these too are transitory as well.  The value of our bank accounts go up and down, our investments change in value, sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse, but over time they do change.  We tend to get more and more possessions, but even these can be lost, damaged or destroyed.  Our health can be good because we have good genes, we eat right, and we exercise, but still, at some point our good health will be called into question, we all get sick, and there will be some end for our lives.  The point is this: the things we look to for stability are not stable, they are transitory as well.  “You can’t take it with you” is one of the cliché remarks we make when this reality comes to mind.

However, there are eternal things, there are things that will never change, that will last.  It is in these things that we should find our stability.  What things are stable?  Truth is stable, for one.  The precepts of the Lord, handed down through the Church to each of us are true, and they are eternal.  It is not my truth or your truth — it is THE truth.  Loving God and loving your neighbor will never get old; the Ten Commandments will never change.  We should therefore contemplate the truths of the Lord, for they are eternal.  

What else is stable?  Our eternal souls are stable.  There will never be a time where our souls do not exist.  You and I exist and will always exist.  We should contemplate the state of our souls and determine if we are prepared to spend eternity in heaven.  We have the time now to avail ourselves of the Lord’s mercy and to do good works through prayer, penance, and almsgiving.    We should be spending our time here on earth preparing ourselves for the eternal judgment of our souls.  Not to be too scary, but it will occur and it is up to us where we end up, depending how we respond to the Lord’s love and mercy.  Our money and possessions will not go with us, but our good works will.

Finally, and not in this particular order that I listed, God is stable, God is eternal.  God is eternally reaching out to us, constantly begging us to turn to Him, consistently pleading with us to let Him deeper into our hearts.  The Lord Jesus is constant in offering to us the mercy He won for us through His Passion and Death.  The Redemption is eternal.  We can bank on that, but only if we avail ourselves of that mercy.

Today, as we celebrate the Solemnity of Mary, the Mother of God, let us turn to Her in a special way for Her aid.  Let us ask Her to help us to turn ourselves to the eternal things, God, truth, and our eternal souls for stability and away from the fleeting things, time, wealth, possessions and health.  Let us all try to be like the humble Mother of God, seeking God in all things, and seeking only the things that bring us to God.

Posted in Homilies | Leave a comment

Feast of the Holy Family — December 29, 2019

I am always struck by the fact that the eternal Son of God chose to come into this world as a little baby.  It did not have to be this way — Jesus could have come as an adult human being, or at some other stage — but Jesus came as a little baby so that He might experience everything that human beings experience. 

And Jesus was born into a family — the Holy Family which we celebrate today.  The moment Jesus was conceived, the moment Mary consented to receiving Christ, and the moment Joseph took Mary into his home, the Holy Family began to be.  And Jesus Christ of course was central to this family.  All of the trials that they underwent, being born in a stable, the flight into Egypt to escape Herod, etc. were because Jesus was central to this family.  The Holy Family had Jesus at the center and is designed to show us how our families should be.

How many families have never occurred because Christ was not kept central in the lives of men and women who have come together to bear children?  

How many families have split apart because Christ was not kept central to the family as the love that keeps men and women together?  

How many families live with strife and without joy even now because Christ is not kept central in the daily occurrences of their lives? 

The Lord Jesus did not come as an adult, He came as a little baby, dependent upon a family to nurture Him – but now it is the Lord Jesus that is the one that nurtures families through His presence in their lives.  Only Jesus can bring true peace — only He can bring true love — only He can bring true joy to a family. 

And so we must ask ourselves: how often do we pray within our families?

How often do we worship together as a family at Mass?

How often do we spend time together in the loving embrace of our family members? 

Or let us ask ourselves, how often do we go our own way within our family, turning within ourselves with our televisions, our smart devices, and our work? 

Which path do we think — common prayer and worship, or individual living and pursuits — will keep a family together?  Which path will keep Christ in the center, so that our family is protected? 

The good news is that we have great hope that we can keep Christ central in our families.  We can resolve to pray together more, whether it is prayer at meals, prayer before bedtime, a family Rosary.  We can increase the amount of religious discussion that we have around the dinner table.  We can spend quality time with one another sharing the love that Christ has for our families.  We can turn to Christ at any time.

On this feast of the Holy Family, let us pray that through the intercession of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph, our families will be kept holy, peaceful, and joyful, knowing that peace, joy, and holiness can only come with keeping Christ central in our lives.

Posted in Homilies | Leave a comment

Christmas — December 25, 2019

Readings from the Mass at Night are found here.

My dear brothers and sisters, how blessed we are.  It may not always seem that way, if we think of the trials of life, the difficulties, the tragedies, the losses and the like.  But we are truly blessed and I am sure that that realization has brought you to this Church to celebrate the birth of our Lord Jesus.  Do we feel blessed?  Do we have that feeling that the Lord is with us?  I imagine that in this Church this evening (morning) (afternoon) some of us do and some of us don’t.  But, that does not change the fact that we are here, and here for a reason.

Our first reading this evening (morning) (afternoon) presents such a powerful message as to why we are here.  Isaiah wrote: “The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light; upon those who dwelt in the land of gloom a light has shone.”  How often do we feel that life is so overwhelming, between job and family, illness, deaths, and bitter tragedies?  How often do we feel that we trudge through life that seems endless and without direction?  Where is that light spoken about by Isaiah, when all we might see around us is gloom?  Where is that light, when all we might be able to see in front of us is darkness?

Isaiah went on to write that “the yoke that burdened them, the pole on their shoulder, and the rod of their taskmaster has been smashed.”  Does it feel as if our work is easy?  Does it feel as if we are free?  Does it feel as if we are unburdened?  What in the world is Isaiah talking about – this doesn’t seem to be the world that we live in!

In fact, it is NOT the world that we are called to live in; it is NOT the world that the Lord has built for us.  Although we live in this world, we are called to place our minds, hearts, and souls in the realm of Heaven.  St. Paul writes in his letter to Titus, the second reading from this evening (morning) (afternoon), “The grace of God has appeared, saving all, and training us to reject godless ways and worldly desires, and to live temperately, justly, and devoutly in this age.”  First of all, the grace of God has appeared.  Jesus has come into our world; today we celebrate His birth, his coming unto us to bring us the free gift of grace from God.  But, second, that grace comes with a purpose – it is grace to strengthen us to reject godless ways, and to live temperately, justly, and devoutly in this age.  We have a choice now.  Are we as eager to receive this Christmas present into our hearts as we might to receive the new television, the new shoes, or the new game?  Are we as eager to grow closer to God and receive the Christmas present of His grace in our hearts as we are to attend Christmas dinners and parties?  My dear brothers and sisters, Christmas is about the grace that God offers us, first in the birth of His Son, but continuing in our hearts as we live our lives in this world.  We have the choice to accept it or reject it.  We can return the gift, and select another, although I would say that would be a poor choice.

Why should we accept the Lord’s gift of grace?  Quite simply, it is because only God can bring us joy and peace.  The new shoes might bring some moments of happiness, the television hours of enjoyment, the new game some amount of fun.  The parties and the dinners might raise our spirits and fill our bellies.  But, all those things are fleeting, they all come to an end, they are all only partial joys.  And, not one of them can bring us peace, for we will have disagreements over what show to watch, the shine on the shoes will get scuffed, and the game will result in a loser.  Parties and dinners sometimes result in the old resentments and difficulties being brought up.  These “celebrations” of Christmas do not bring what Christ Jesus came to bring us.

The angel declared to the shepherds, “Do not be afraid; for behold I proclaim to you good news of great joy that will be for all the people.  For today in the city of David, a savior has been born who is Christ the Lord.”  The angels then broke out into song exclaiming, “Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”  Christ Jesus, born today for us brings us God’s grace and brings us salvation.  There is no salvation for you or me without Him or God’s grace working in our lives.  There is no lasting joy for you or me without Him or God’s grace working in our lives.  There is no peace for you or me without Him or God’s grace working in our lives.

I asked earlier: Do we feel blessed?  Do we feel the Lord is with us?  Is our work easy, are we unburdened, are we free?  Do we walk in gloom and darkness?  Those questions are for you to ponder.  If we do feel blessed and unburdened and free and if we do walk in the light, gloom free, I am certain that we know the Lord in our lives.  If not, perhaps it is we who are resisting the gifts that Christ came to bring.  Perhaps, we are kind of returning the gift He wants to share with us.

How do we accept the graces that God wants us to accept?  We accept it through faithful prayer and worship.  We need to pray every day from our hearts.  We need to share everything with the Lord, and that takes some effort on our parts.  We need to have a loving relationship with the Lord that can occur with no other human being.  We also need to worship faithfully.  We need to come together at Church to experience the Sacraments, God’s grace being given into our lives.  If we are not at Mass, we cannot receive God’s graces in the Eucharist.  If we do not confess our sins, we cannot be forgiven of them by God and receive His grace to amend our lives, and live temperately and devoutly in this life as St. Paul encouraged.  In short, we are nothing without God in our lives.

So today, on this Christmas day, let us open ourselves to receive Him.  Let us resolve to do everything in our power to receive God’s grace into our hearts, to accept His love, to accept His peace, and to accept His joy – the love, the peace, and the joy that is everlasting.  Let us greet our newborn Savior with praise!  Merry Christmas!

Posted in Homilies | 1 Comment